Being on time, or calling if you're going to be late (especially from work), and,
Having my cell phone on.
Now at 3:30 or so he called to make sure I'd be around to walk the pup, as he had a client ask for a huge quote tonight and he was going over to a co-worker's to get it done. He claimed he'd be home by 6:30 at the latest. Well, its 7:45 now, and still no hubby. Tried calling twice - not cos I was nagging, I just was wondering if I should eat - another of his pet peeves is being late (even if he's given me no ETA) and walking in the door 2 min after I've finished my solo meal.
Interesting how this would have freaked him out, and yet a) I don't mind and b) it doesn't seem to bother him when he does it.
Just so I'm clear - his being late and not calling doesn't bother me, but the fact that he harps at me about it does *g*